What should I do if I like or love someone? How am I going to know him before I want to marry him? Can I straight away using facebook, phone calls, yahoo messenger or twitter to say hi, stalk everyday and keep updating his daily activities?
Islam gives the best solution. First, find someone who is reliable and can guide you in Islamic way, for example, your parents or aunty and uncle or someone older. Dan kalau ada usrah, mintak tolong naqib or naqibah selidik2.. hehe.. Ask them to go to the guy that you love and meet up with his family to find out how is that guy's behaviour.
Do you know, only by looking at him, our parents have kinda feeling that we call as INSTINCT, either he is the best person for you or not. Sometimes, we can see his akhlak by looking at the way he speaks with elders, the way he laughs, the way he eats, does he lower his gaze, the way he walks, what does he wear, how he spends money, does he care about prayer etc etc. Does he portray Islam? Hurm, Let your parents find out! Mak ayah kita mesti tahu apa yg baik dan apa yg tak baik.
Dont gatalgatal pi jumpa sendiri na! Takmau stalk2..Nanti sakit mata..
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