Sunday, October 23, 2011

it is private!

Tips # 2

Assalamualaikum.


How am I going to show my love and passion to my partner (wife/husband). I always see a husband and his wife go in front of everybody to show how much they love each other.

Show your love to your partner privately. Not publicly. That is the different between Muslim and non-Muslim in showing love.

It is a norm to see couples hugging or doing whatsoever publicly.
For non-Muslim, "What's wrong with that? If you love someone, obviously you wanna show it!"
But in Islam, keep it secret! :)

Why do you need to keep it privately?

1. It is tempting the other people who is not afford to get married. Oh kesian kat mereka~

2. Other will compare his/her partner's weakness with yours.
"How sweet is your husband, not like mine" *sad sad sad*

3. Will lead to riya' because you love other people to look at you and your partner in showing love. Kena syg isteri dengan ikhlas, bukan untuk menunjuk-nunjuk.

p/s: pasangan anda bukan pameran!


3 comments:

  1. nice topic discussed. indeed true.. =)

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  2. bru syok kalu romantik dalam rumah, ye dok??? ngeh3~

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  3. best kan smlm kak zetty? bnyk nasihat2 yg syeikh tu bagi utk kita2 yg excited psl cinta ni..

    kak nadia, kat mane2 pn romantik..asalkan ikut cara islam..hihihihi.. *malumalu*

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